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When what you need is just around the corner

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It’s been a few years since we have planted a successful veggie garden. This year we tentatively set up a couple of raised beds and purchased the minimum amount of seedlings and I’m happy to report that so far most of our babies are growing successfully. (Our biggest threat has been an earwig infestation which has resulted in me going out each night with a torch and flicking the little creatures off our tasty plants.)

These are the three cherry tomato bushes we bought and they are all still alive!

These are the three cherry tomato bushes we bought and they are all still alive!

I felt like I needed a mentor, my confidence, though improved, was still smarting from previous crop failures. Our dear friend Bruno visited last week, which reminded me that his father lives around the corner and is an enthusiastic gardener who supplements his diet with an impressive spread of vegetables grown in his back yard. (Dom and ‘the boys’ were born in  S.Angelo in Italy where the family had owned land and a fine cart pulled by the family’s two cows. Dom has even made a small replica of the ‘cows and cart’.)

Bruno and Tony told me that Dom is a bit of a cow whisperer.

Bruno and Tony told me that Dom is a bit of a cow whisperer.

I asked Bruno if he thought his father would be willing to help me, and suddenly it was all organised! We agreed to meet up over the weekend so I ventured over with a list of questions in mind. Of course I have a heap of books on the subject and I could just ‘google it’ but I have tried these methods before and they just haven’t stuck so I decided that the only option was to spend time with a real live experienced gardener. Fortunately Bruno and his brother Tony were happy to translate for me, as well as offer a wealth of information from their own experiences as gardeners.

Here we see the Annetta menfolk checking out the area where the seedlings are grown.

Here we see the Annetta menfolk checking out the area where the seedlings are grown.

The beans caught my eye immediately, the tendrils happily winding themselves around bamboo sticks that Domenico grew in his original Reservoir home, around twenty years ago. These beans were in full sun for most of the day and yet Dom was not at all concerned that they might get damaged on freakishly hot days, he simply waters them morning and evening and this is enough for them to make it through the blistering heat.

I would sell my soul to have beans growing in our garden that look like this!

I would sell my soul to have beans growing in our garden that look like this!

He rotates his crops, with Bruno and Tony commenting that one year the tomatoes will be planted where the beans are and the next year it will be vice versa. To keep the soil enriched he uses dynamic lifter; in earlier years he would buy bags of goat manure but as the years pass it has become easier to follow this new regime.

One side of the bed is a cos type lettuce, the other is a scariola, more suitable for cooking.

One side of the bed is a cos type lettuce, the other is a scariola, more suitable for cooking.

He saves his seeds from year to year and has a special spot for growing them. I was fortunate enough to take away some cucumber seeds and some lettuce and tomato seedlings, and garlic and don’t forget the bottle of homemade wine! The most amazing thing that occurred was he gave me a very special tool used for making holes in the soil for the seedlings. I am honoured to have received such a gift.

Bruno and Tony joked that they hadn't been presented with one of these. Maybe it's because I look like I need all the help I can get!

Bruno and Tony joked that they hadn’t been presented with one of these. Maybe it’s because I look like I need all the help I can get!

I asked him about how he deals with ‘pests’. While he does rely on snail and slug pellets, he has an ingenious way of trapping them – he places the pellets under a piece of metal in a grassy area at the edge of his beds and the snails and slugs make their way to this little lean-to, gorging themselves on pellets, thus leaving the seedlings for human consumption.

Come on snails and slugs, I have built a special home for you!

Come on snails and slugs, I have built a special home for you!

He had also planted cucumbers, tomatoes, two kinds of leafy greens and there was a fine crop of garlic that caught my eye.

Domenico kindly gave me some garlic to grow, even though the planting season has passed. I'll see how I go!

Domenico kindly gave me some garlic to grow, even though the planting season has passed. I’ll see how I go!

I envied his confidence in his ability to grow his own food and thought I should definitely take a leaf out of his book.

It was a humbling experience and I hope to go back again, with my next visit being when it is time to plant the broad beans. I will take this opportunity to promise that I will take care of our new family of seedlings to the best of my ability, committing to being a confident and consistent carer.

Author: rhinophile

I’m interested in how we live and how we die. I like to try things on and see if they work for me. I find the human experience a fascinating one. No matter how much we hear about there being evil in the world, I also know there is goodness, and many people who are dedicated to caring for everyone and everything.

11 thoughts on “When what you need is just around the corner

  1. I LOVE that seedling hole digger. And your post. I can see what you mean about Bruno’s dad being an inspiration. The importance of seeing and doing rather than just reading about things is so true. You hit the jackpot with this one! Not only a wonderful lesson on growing food in your back yard, a bottle of Dom’s award winning home-made wine as well!

    • The seedling hole digger is amazing! It works so well and is such a pleasure to use. Domenico also gave me a basket he had woven himself. Bruno and Tony joked about the next group coming through, I’m sure many people would appreciate the chance to see and speak with someone like Domenico. 😊

  2. I loved reading your post Ruth!

  3. You realise that you now have become the patriarch of the Williams and Webb clan of everything gardening. The skill of learning is the ability to teach others. Hold on what do you do for a profession . Great read

    • Can I become the matriarch? 😄 The Northcote and Eltham Webb’s already have super gardening skills so they probably don’t need me however I do appreciate your observation that ‘the skill of learning is the ability to each others’ and am really pleased that you enjoyed reading this post. 😊

  4. In the world of kitchen gardens, I see a new home building enterprise catering for slugs and snails. Marketed under the Roofs by Ruth brand. Exclusive design features including built in food storage and waste recycling………Lovely sharings Ruth.

    • I do like the company title ‘Roofs by Ruth’, it would almost work as a tongue twister! Hopefully the slugs and snails wouldn’t catch on that these lodgings would be their last resting place! Thanks for reading! ☺️

  5. Very good reading Ruth. It reminds me just how earthy and back to basics it all was once. With modern living, we lose a little independence every day, it seems to me. As the famous DIRT VADER once said: Ruth he is our father! So use the pointy stick wisely young Jedi.

    • I agree with your observation, Tony, that we lose a little independence every day. Getting back into the garden is one way for me to take back some of that independence. It’s interesting that for our generation, we only have to look back to our parents to see how well they lived on so much less.
      (I will definitely use the pointy stick wisely, it has already been very useful. 😄)

  6. Great blog, growing your own fruit and Veg. is one of the true joys of life. I remember being told stories by my Italian friends of sneaking their lunches into school because of the weird vegetables their parents had grown and put in their lunch box. Now they would be boasting.

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